 Blogging mini sessions is always a bit difficult because you don’t want to spoil the holiday card surprise. But I had to grab a few shots from a few sessions these past two weeks to show just how great these folks look and how happy I am to have such fun, engaging and impeccably-dressed clients […]  Today was early dismissal for the kids. It also happened to be an incredibly gorgeous day in Houston. It also happened to be the day that Joe Biden visited the park and the local news needed footage of people enjoying themselves. We happened to be where the reporter was, so he filmed the boys playing and asked […]  I like to do this thing where I say I’m going to start a series. I name it, get all geeked about it, and then you never see it again. I’m doing it right now. This series that you won’t ever see again is called “I Love Houston” because really, I do. I love the […]  The following words have nothing to do with the above photos. I might discuss them later, but for now I need to address something more pressing. Last week I received an email from an acquaintance (Not a fan of that word, but I try not to use the word “friend” too loosely. If you have a solid in-between, […]  Heather and I have known each other for decades, but just recently reconnected through our children’s school. This weekend I was able to photograph her beautiful family with their newest addition, Georgia. It made for a fun morning. Thank you, Daoust family. |
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I’m going to share this post not just because you are my talented friend who I miss dearly but because women need to know they aren’t alone. So many women think they are less because the mom or wife who looks perfect.
Yes, Charlene. I have to do everything short of slapping my own face to remind myself that the perfect does not exist! Thank you so much for sharing.
Thank you for this. I’m new at the sahm gig but already have days where I feel like I failed completely. Some days I let Marcus watch Tom and Jerry for hours so I can lay next to him and cuddle. I always feel like I should be Educating him or taking him somewhere. But always, without fail, my boys always reassure me that they love me so much. So I must be doing something right. Some days. Miss you friend!
Ha! Friend, I know exactly what you mean! Sometimes you have to just send them to TV zombie mode to get those snuggles. And I’m pretty sure he’ll cherish the snuggles far more than he will the workbook pages :). Thank you for reading, Megan.
Wow. I read this and was thinking of MY mom. She had 10 of us. 10. She is 89 now &I wondered how often she must have felt this way. And then there it was. Wednesday. That was her escape day too. She had Wednesday’s. It is was her day and we ALL benefitted like the fresh air from a norther. This reminder of Wednesday was like the cool side of a pillow. Thank you.
This is seriously the best. Thank you for taking the time to read and for sharing a little piece of your mother with is :).
I’m a huge fan of Shea’s (and now you!). I’m currently a junior in college and the eldest of 5 kids. My mother was a stay at home mom for 14 years and I honestly feel like I took her for granted. She just decided last year that she wanted to attend law school and she got in. She is driving 45 minutes Monday through Friday there and back and still manages to attend all of my little siblings band competitions and parents meetings and dance/gymnastics practices. She, like all stay at home moms, is a super woman! Just from following your husband on Twitter, you have a wonderful family! Whatever you decide to do with your time, know they’ll love and support you all the way!
Best of luck!
Wow. Your mother is a brave woman and an inspiration. I think the fear of being unavailable to my family is what stops me from seizing certain opportunities. I’m so glad your mom is able to still be there for you all. And good for you for recognizing the work she’s put forth and the sacrifices she’s made. Be sure to tell her that if you haven’t already :). Thank you for taking the time to post and respond, Isaac.
Larami I feel so honored to have read this. It made me feel so connected with you again. I’d love to get together if you ever have time. I have so much to share with you too. Love, Karuna
KARUNA! I miss you. I would love to get together soon. Seriously.
Larami, I just happened to come across your blog on FB. So needed to read this today. I’ve been staying home with my 8 month old since he was born, & it’s nice to know that I’m not the only stay at home mom experiencing this craziness in my head. Like you said, I feel so blessed to stay at home with my children that I love more than life. But it can be overwhelming at times just like any other job, only we’re not allowed to complain. The isolation from other adults & loss of identity do wear on you mentally . . . I can’t tell you how many times I’ve left my gas oven on overnight! Cooking nothing! Because I had to stop what I was doing to change a diaper or stop my older two boys from killing each other. Only by the grace of God I haven’t burned the house down yet! So thanks so much for sharing this. Now I can cancel that doc appt. to the neurologist for a brain scan! Lol
Hi April! You brought up such a good point when you mentioned that we feel like we aren’t allowed to complain. So very true. I can’t tell you how happy it makes me that you and so many others found even an ounce of relief from knowing you’re not alone in your thoughts. I appreciate your taking the time to comment (all of you).