 At some point each year, I consider the idea of shooting weddings (I currently do not). I mean, they’re beautiful. Everyone is looking their absolute best. At least 90% of the subjects are of the age where I don’t have to chase them, entertain them, or bribe them with candy. The vast majority of those present actually […]  This post is difficult to write. Well, not so much difficult to write, but difficult to publish. On June 1st I’m having abdominoplasty, or a tummy tuck. I hate the term tummy tuck so from here out I won’t be using it again, okay? A little background for any new readers: Almost 9 years ago I had twins. […]  After I finished my dining table, I was itching for another project to tackle and figured with summer coming up, some outdoor entertainment was the way to go. I LOVED the idea of Ana White’s sandbox with bench, but didn’t like the idea of it taking up a permanent space (i.e., killing grass) in our backyard. […]  Typically I photograph newborns in the comforts of the mother’s home, but there are a handful of situations (home under construction) that call for an on-location shoot. Thanks to Fill In The Blank Studios, I was able to shoot this newborn session in this beautifully-lit space. We were even able to use their props and backdrops which […]  Jonnelle and I are both members of a large Facebook mom’s group and when I posted an advertisement for mini sessions in this space, I kind of knew she’d be interested. Sure enough, she was. And sure enough, she and her family were the perfect fit for this chic natural light studio. Dupas family, thank […] |
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You are amazing. Could you get anymore beautiful???!!! And, yeah, you’re easy on the eyes too. I am so proud of you. Your voice means so much to so many mamas out there. Thank you for being you.
Thank you, Krystle! I feel the same way about you <3
Thanks to your educational post, I think I need to go check mine out. And hooray for a wonderful, supportive partner!
Hey pretty lady! I miss you!
Thank you Larami for your beautifully written and honest piece. Praying for you during this journey.
I appreciate that ❤️❤️❤️
I just had an abdominoplasty and liposuction 3 days ago after 3 children as well. Obviously I’m still recovering but have a few girlfriends who paved the way. The first 24 hours are the worst. I’ll keep you updated on my progress… hopefully I’ll love the results.
Please keep me posted! I’d love to see your progress:).
I love that you are documenting your journey. I wish I could have read more personal experiences when I was making my decision many years ago! I had my abdominoplasty about 16 years ago and have always felt that it’s the best thing I’ve ever done. My abdominal wall was also separated and I was warned it needed to be fixed before I developed a hernia. The first few weeks were the hardest but it will go by quickly and you will be happy you did it. Best of luck!!
I had abdominoplasty 10 months ago with Dr. Franklin Rose and couldn’t be more pleased. I consulted with Dr P but felt more connected to Dr Rose. Both are the best surgeons around. This was my first surgery ever, and I will admit post surgery was challenging. I highly recommend finding a lymphatic massage therapist and start immediately. I used Delmie with True Recovery. She used to work with Dr P and well versed with cosmetic surgery. Wishing you a fast, healthy recovery!
Nice! I actually had my first lymphatic massage today and it was WONDERFUL. Thanks for stopping by :).
Thank you for this bracingly honest and thoughtful post. There’s many reasons to get so-called “cosmetic” procedures done that go beyond just wanting to look good (and what’s so wrong with wanting to look good, anyway?) and it’s always nice to hear more.
One thing I was curious about: did your health insurance help you at all? I know insurance companies don’t generally pay for cosmetic surgery procedures, but it sounds like there was a definite medical need for the procedure in this case, with the hernia and abdominal separation.
Hi Drew! Thank you for your comment :). Unfortunately, insurance won’t cover this in the U.S. MANY other nations consider it medically necessary and cover it, but we’re not there yet. From what I understand, there are a handful of insurance companies that will cover the hernia and muscle repair but it would be done by a general surgeon, excess skin would remain, and the incision would not be aesthetically pleasing at all. No fun.
Thank you so much for posting this. I have been struggling with all my extra skin as well. I have had two children, both of which I was measuring 42 weeks at about 32 weeks and had high fluid levels. Enough said there, speaks for itself. My stomach looks like a 65 year old woman’s. I still have more weight to lose and have tossed the idea around for a while about having the same procedure. But the vanity/it’s selfish part always screams back at me. But reading your post really helped me realize it’s not, and that maybe some day I’ll have the procedure as well. Thank you. Thank you so much for writing this. It’s so nice to know that I am not alone! I hope you will write a follow up post!
So sorry I’m just getting around to seeing this. But it makes me feel super happy that this post helped you :). I’m two weeks post-op and about to post an update, so stay tuned!
THANK YOU for taking the time to comment <3.